The Old Order Mennonites who live in Ontario,
Canada, live very simply, making their own clothing, growing their own food,
farming, bringing their goods to market and supporting each other in every way
a community can. If you see them on the street, you look twice. A woman in a
long dress and bonnet getting out of a horse drawn carriage certainly does draw
some attention these days! Driving down the road, you see horse drawn buggies
trotting along the side of the road, and signs beside driveways advertising
produce for sale.
These Mennonites do have some seemingly conflicting
ideas, however. They live without electricity, except in the barn. They don’t
use cars or buses, but will use them if an emergency arises. They don’t use
telephones in the house, but do have one in the barn. It seems hypocritical!
Why have electricity in the barn but refuse it in the house? Why put a phone in
the barn at all? If they are living a simple life, why make these concessions
at all?
These mixtures of convenience and simplicity are
not so hypocritical if you understand their reasons. Old Order Mennonites do
not shun modern convenience because they believe that they are evil. Instead,
they are guarding their community, way of life and relationships. Their simple
lifestyle is not meant to avoid modern life, but to protect traditional values.
For example, in order to run a farm today, some very up-to-date machinery is
needed. A farmer cannot sell milk that does not meet public health standards,
so they use electricity in the barn to run milking machines that comply with
health codes. However, they do not use electricity in the house because they
don’t want to be trapped by TV and other modern amenities. They pull together, work
together, play together, and pray together. Hard work is needed for something as
simple as a meal to be made, but the act of working together to produce it is
of extreme value to them. A telephone in the barn is for emergencies. If there
were a terrible accident, dire need for a doctor or some other emergency, a
phone is within a short jog from the house. However, a family meal or family
worship will never be interrupted by a ringing telephone. No one will waste
time chatting on the phone instead of working and helping the people right next
to them in the same room. Their family values are protected.
Is this the kind of simplicity that the
Adventist Church has in mind for its members? Are you expected to conform to
something like the Old Order Mennonite lifestyle? Not at all! We can learn a
lot from the Mennonites, though, in their priorities. God and family always
come first. Praying and worship are a central part of the home. Family members
all contribute to the running of the home, everyone making a difference and everyone
needed. Family time together is guarded and precious. Community relationships
are nurtured and encouraged. The sick, elderly and disabled are cared for by
the community. Moreover, they take active steps to protect the values that
matter most to them.
What values matter to you?
And what can you do to protect them?
The story is told of a native fisherman on an
island. He had always fished and was very good at it. He fished all morning,
and by mid afternoon had caught enough fish to sell at the market and to feed
his family. One day, a well-meaning businessman on vacation approached him.
“How long do you work each day?” he asked the fisherman.
“Till mid-afternoon,” he replied.
“How many boats do you have?” the businessman
asked.
“Just the one,” he replied.
“Look,” said the businessman. “I am in business
in New York. I know how to make money. Let me give you some advice. You are a
very good fisherman, so good, in fact that you don’t have to work all day in
order to catch enough fish. But if you just put a few more hours of fishing in
every day, you’ll catch more fish! Fish from morning till evening, then clean
the fish till night. You’ll make more money. When you have more money, buy
another boat and hire some experienced fishermen to work under you. Keep
growing your business, and in twenty years, you will have a fishing empire!”
“What will this get me?” the fisherman asked.
“You’ll make lots of money!” the businessman
replied. “You can buy a big house, retire, relax, take long walks with your
wife and spend time with your grandkids. It’s a dream come true!”
“I don’t need to,” the fisherman replied with a
shrug. “I work till mid-afternoon every day. I already get to walk with my wife
every evening. My children are still young, and I can spend time with them now.
I don’t need a bigger house. I like the one I’ve got.”
Sometimes the complications in life are simply a
way of putting off what we could be enjoying right now. Ask yourself this: What
are you working for? What are the long hours supposed to get you? What is the expensive
vacation supposed to do for you? What are the toys supposed to accomplish? You
might find that what you are looking for is time with your family, a chance to
relax and a sense of peace. What is holding you back from enjoying those things
right now? Simplify. “Give us this day our daily bread.” Spend time with the kids
today. Reconnect with your spouse today. Take time with God today. Today is the
most important time we have.
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